Which people succeed, and which lose?
Why is it that on the way to success, some people reach the top, while others constantly break down? Life is an unfair thing, you say? By no means.
All people are divided into two types: those who read glossy magazines and those about whom they write. Successful people are always attractive and slightly mysterious characters. They are admired, they are envied, they are trying to be equal to them ... What people succeed and how to become one of them? Why are there any pets of Fortune, and someone is losing?
Where does success come from
Some believe that success in a person’s life, power and wealth are given only to the elect due to various reasons : rich parents, innate genius, photogenic appearance, and so on. All these factors take place, but they put such a tiny percentage of the total number of successful people that it is even shameful to take it into account.
Most of the greats of this world have achieved recognition because of their inner strength, which, by the way, every person has.Why then are not all of us bright, charismatic, rich and famous? It's very simple - we were taught to think that we are not . In fact, each of us is unique and just crammed with tremendous abilities that can change the world, and if not for everyone, then at least for you personally. Those who achieved real recognition of the public, wealth and power, managed to circumvent this “ban on success” and live as they themselves wanted.
To overcome this internal barrier , which protects us from real life, is very difficult, but the success of a person depends on it. Since childhood, we have been given to understand that nothing is given for nothing, that everything has to be paid for, everything must be earned through hard work . And the harder this work is, the higher the reward will be. It sounds noble and seems to be correct, for some reason it does not work at all in practice.
What is defeat?
Once upon a time there lived in the world one wise inventor Thomas Edison, who was distinguished not only by brilliant technical abilities, but also by an exceptional sharpness of mind. One of his statements has long become a popular expression and is used in all spheres of life. When Edison was asked about his unsuccessful experiments, he said: "I have never suffered a defeat in my life, but simply found many ways that do not work . "
Thus, Mr. Edison described one of the most important truths that we completely forgot about - there are no failures . If you are defeated, it does not mean that life is over, and you are a lost, pitiful person. This means that you have found a path that should not be taken! Now you know that this door is not for you, and that you can safely open the next one!
Defeat is not the final station, but a stop on the way to the target.
It's like giving up a pawn, but winning the game . How to surrender Moscow, but to win the war! Anyone who has achieved success will tell you that he has experienced not the most pleasant moments in his life and career, and even now there are failures. But thanks to these so-called defeats, they managed to temper their character and achieve unprecedented results. After all, if victory was easy, it would not be so valuable and desirable ...
When you have the best friend in your life, that's great! After all, this is a person with whom you can discuss everything in the world, and who will never refuse you support and friendly advice. But in any barrel of honey there is always a fly in the ointment.
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Life is an unfair thing, you say?
Why are there any pets of Fortune, and someone is losing?
Why then are not all of us bright, charismatic, rich and famous?
What is defeat?